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Are you enabling social injustice without knowing it? J Mase III discusses steps to effect real
change for social justice—steps that can save lives. J Mase III is a Black/trans/queer poet & educator
based in Seattle by way of Philly. As an educator, Mase has worked with community members in
the US, UK, and Canada on the needs of LGBTQIA folks in spaces such as K-12 schools, universities,
faith communities and restricted care facilities.He is founder of awQward, the �rst trans and
queer people of color talent agency.
His work has been featured on MSNBC, Essence Live, Everyday Feminism, Black Girl
Dangerous, the New York Times, Buzzfeed, the Root, theGrio, the Huf�ngton Post and more.

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[Music]
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so imagine you’re going into a store and
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when you’re going into the store you see
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a store clerk and a security guard and
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when you see them one of them doesn’t
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matter which but one of them says hello
00:23
to you and when they say hello to you it
00:25
comes out sort of like this like hey
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hello is that someone generally trying
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some of y’all a little skeptical I like
00:36
that you better forget let’s say you go
00:39
into the story different day and so on
00:41
this day again you go in you see a store
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clerk and a security guard and one of
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them says hello to you only this time
00:48
when they say hello it comes out sort of
00:49
like this hello is that someone trying
00:55
to seem friendly no right so what I’m
00:58
hoping we can get from this exercise is
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that simple polite gestures like Hello
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don’t always equal friendly can we agree
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on that and we’ve all been in a moment
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or experience in which what someone said
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was different than what was being
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communicated does that make sense to
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everyone so when I think about myself as
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a trans person I’ve been out and as an
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adult longer than I’ve been in the
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closet right I also spent a lot of my
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time talking about identity and talking
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about trans miss and I usually express
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myself in a way that’s outside typical
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gender norms so people are generally
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rarely surprised to hear me say that I’m
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trans even if they don’t quite have the
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language for it does that make sense and
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so that’s not surprising but what does
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become surprising for folks is when I
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say that I grew up in a multi-faith
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household in particular that I have a
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father who was raised Muslim and a
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mother who was raised Christian now when
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I say that people who perceive
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themselves as being in solidarity with
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the part of me that is trans immediately
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want to focus in on my father and they
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weren’t enough well what did your father
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think about you coming out and when
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things kind of come up so one it’s clear
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that they don’t think it’s important to
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unpack the relationship I had with my
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non-muslim parent so I noticed that I
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noticed the places in which they want me
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to accept or reject whatever notions
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they have about who Muslim people are
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here the places where they’re not
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actually concerned about the real
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relationship I had with my father
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they’re not concerned about the standing
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breakfast date we had every Saturday
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morning and we would spend 30 days
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arguing about who got to pay he got to
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pay that day that’s why he looks so
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happy they’re not concerned about the
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fact that he was my best friend and the
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person I spent the most time talking
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about my faith and spiritual journey
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with they don’t care about the old chain
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of his that I wear around my neck with
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his name on it nah
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they want to hear a critique how do I
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know they want to hear a critique
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because when I follow up their question
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with wonderful stories about the
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relationship between my father and I
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after coming out they are always in
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shock but when they’re asking this
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question they’re very polite about it so
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should I accept the Islamophobia
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projected onto my family and my family
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dynamics simply because the asker is
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polite about it so just based off the
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title I know for some of y’all you might
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have been expecting that this was going
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to be a coming-out story well surprise
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I’ve been out for a long time and so I’m
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not invested in dissecting that part of
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my journey with you what I do want to
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talk about is the behavior of others
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when we live in our truth as trans
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people as people of color and folks from
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other targeted communities I really want
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to talk about politeness and in
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particular I want to talk about the
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untrustworthiness of polite people all
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right y’all ready for that talk y’all
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ready for that cuz we going to get into
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it all right and so when we think about
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politeness right according to the
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magical tool that is dictionary.com
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politeness is de�ned as having or
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showing behaviors that are respectful
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and/or considerate of other people
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having or showing behaviors that are
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respectful and/or considerate of other
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people now when people hear me talk
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about my family’s upbringing and
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speci�cally the religious background if
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we’re getting to that place in the story
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there’s a 99.9% chance that they already
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know my father has passed and so that
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they know that they’re potentially
04:20
bringing up a negative experience with a
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person I love who has died right and so
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if you could imagine for a second that
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you have a dying family member and
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before consoling you someone said oh my
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ever take a puppy once we would think
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that question is absurd right and
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insensitive right and I thought you
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someone is asking this question that
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they are projecting some negative pieces
04:59
onto my family are they necessarily
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being respectful and considerate of me
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right are they being respectful and/or
05:08
considerate of my grief no they’re
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generally being respectful and/or
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considerate of experiences and stories
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that they’ve been told about who trans
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people and Muslim people are and whether
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or not they can be the same thing or
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coexist together they’re generally being
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respectful and/or considerate of a
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system that the humanizes Muslim people
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every day and perpetuates Islamophobia
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does that make sense for y’all does that
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make sense and I’m not totally psychic
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from targeted communities that get
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interrogated at the same level that
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experiences it might be hard to measure
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of framework so I’m gonna give you all
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gonna travel back in time to a few years
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ago so a few years ago I was
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volunteering at a summer camp this
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okay and so one day in particular
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came up in the day and so everybody else
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is inside and so within 10 to 12 minutes
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of us being outside three white police
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of�cers rushed up toward us with their
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hands on their weapons okay not yet
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drawn but making sure that we’re clear
06:37
that they have them okay and so when the
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police of�cers that I’m perceiving to
06:42
be in charge is looking at us and is
06:44
about 40s or 50s and says we’ve got a
06:47
noise complaint it was hard to �nd
06:50
right and so this presents a cognitive
06:54
dissonance right so how can it be that
06:57
we are both so loud that we require
07:00
police intervention yet so quiet that
07:03
it’s hard to �nd us okay is anyone here
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anxious giggler anyone anxious giggle
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raise your hand really anxious giggler
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right that’s something that I do is that
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no is it a human response to stress yeah
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yeah so in this moment lots of things
07:21
are bubbling up for me especially as I’m
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seeing this juxtaposition of us as four
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black folks standing outside in
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proximity to these white police of�cers
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that are cornering us simply because of
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a perceived noise complaint or noise
07:33
violation and so as I’m getting more
07:36
anxious the �rst thing I can think to
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say out of my mouth is well of course
07:39
you got a noise complaint there’s four
07:41
black people standing outside and so the
07:45
police of�cer in that moment he doesn’t
07:48
just get angry he becomes anger right
07:52
he becomes anger and so as he’s shouting
07:56
and things are getting really real my
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this moment and as that is happening my
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friend who is a Virgo and thinks a lot
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more about what she says before she says
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it starts to be escalating the situation
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which is something she shouldn’t have to
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08:24
in that situation and so eventually the
08:27
police of�cers leave and we go back
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inside and now we are tasked with
08:32
explaining to a mostly white group of
08:33
people what just happened to us and so
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as we’re talking to people a lot of
08:38
people start crying and hugging us and
08:41
telling us oh my goodness I can’t
08:42
believe that happened to you I’m so
08:44
sorry that happened to you
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here we were in this moment and where we
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really quick by the police and so camp
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ends a few months later it’s
09:03
time to play for the next camp and so at
09:06
the time the executive director is being
09:08
very evasive about where the next camp
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is gonna be then he gets to this kind of
09:12
a critical mass point where you kind of
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got to know where things are happening
09:16
or can’t can’t happen and so eventually
09:19
the executive director reveals well
09:21
actually we’re gonna have camp this same
09:22
exact place we had it last year so me in
09:24
the place that we just got held up right
09:27
and so why was that so the executive
09:30
director who was white called up the
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police departments as well as the campus
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digs they apologized to a leadership
09:44
team and you know they were very polite
09:47
and they were nice and the campus even
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gave us a discount to return gave us a
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there was a �nancial bene�t they
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to justice and actually I want you to
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you’ve been that person to somebody else
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can’t possibly be Islamophobic or
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for white folks in the room what sort of
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politeness and niceties in the face of
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trial Macon’s black and brown people is
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it keeping a certain type of job is it
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quote-unquote everybody right what are
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the goodies you’re getting this is
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gender folks
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what sort of goodies do you get for
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being polite and nice in the face of
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trauma that happens to trans people
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right so is it that you get to be quirky
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but not as weird as these people over
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here is it again that you get to laugh
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at that joke without a conscience right
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what are the goodies for non-muslim
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people is it a false sense of safety
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what are the goodies you’re getting does
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that make sense so you must own your
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role in politeness right next we must
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accept that urgency is different for
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everyone do you think my urgency when I
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being perceived as talking too loudly
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outside of a building on a college
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campus during the middle of the day in
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the dead of summer right do you think
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the urgency of someone who is houseless
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someone who has a well-paying
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nine-to-�ve job and owns our own home
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higher as a black person if I am part of
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an organization with a 95% white
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leadership team and my job becomes at
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risk for bringing attention to the lack
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of awareness of racism and white
14:01
supremacy at that organization is my
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urgency going to be higher or lower than
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a white colleague that never even
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considered there was a racial justice
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problem it’s going to be higher right so
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with on the weekend may not the people
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be the people that you want to rely on
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when your life is actually at risk next
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we must defer leadership so what does
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that look like and what does that mean
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as nice and great as you are when you’re
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a kid you’re learned let one plus one
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equals two you learn that two plus two
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equals four
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you learned subtraction division
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percentages decimals and at some point
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you decided whether or not math was for
14:40
you right we never expect someone with a
14:43
kindergarten level understanding of math
14:44
to have the same conversation about math
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as we do an astrophysicist
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well we consistently expect in a system
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it’s now possible we expect cisgender
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be proud of that be proud of it okay so
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being a security guard from Malcolm X
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back in the day and I know but he didn’t
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know much about queerness or analyst
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before I came out but you know what I
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saw I saw him allow himself to be humble
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on the ground and I often wondered what
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